10 Things We Need to Let Go

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10 Things We Need to Let Go

Everybody wants to be happy, but only few are brave enough to put in the work to be so. It’s not some magical feeling that finds its way to your life.

You need to be self aware in order to even begin to find happiness. It really starts with you. You need to get to know yourself, what you’re looking for, what you like, what you don’t like, things like that.

There’s a lot of learning involved before you can say you are truly happy. It’s a constant process, not some prized possession you leave in a trophy case.

Here are some of the things we need to let go because they hinder us from finding true happiness:

1) Others’ approval

Basing your life decisions on other people’s feelings about it is insane. You know that you can’t please everybody, you know that there will always be something someone won’t approve of or will displease them.

Why bother seeking comfort in others’ approval when it means sacrificing what would make you happy? That’s not comforting at all. That you have to give up what would make life better for you for people who aren’t going to live it for you.

Your life is yours alone. Live it according to you.

2) Pride

Nothing ever gets resolved with this. If you’re stubborn and refuse to believe you’re wrong, especially when you are, then you’re not helping yourself.

Part of growing, of evolving into the person you’re supposed to become is in knowing when you’re right, and knowing when you’re wrong.

If you know you’ve made a mistake, have the humility to admit it.

3) Expectations

Yes, the golden rule, treat others the way you would want them to treat you, is a good measure of how you should be, but it doesn’t guarantee that others will follow suit.

You can’t expect people to act and react the way you would given a particular situation. You can only hope that they do right by you, but if they don’t, you need to be the one to adjust accordingly.

4) Anger

Staying mad at people who have wronged you will only make you feel burdened. It’s going to weigh heavily on you, not them, if you don’t learn to let go of it.

Anger is consuming and if you don’t know how to handle it correctly, it can and it will take over your life–how you see things, how you feel about people, etc.

It’s always best to forgive people, even if you haven’t received an apology.

5) Idea of Perfection

Life isn’t perfect, people aren’t perfect, even the perfectly planned vacation isn’t always perfect.

Why insist on perfection when nothing really is?

Learn to recreate your definition of what perfect is, something that’s attainable. Like, a perfect day is getting to see at least one of your loved ones, or going home to your family, having a nice dinner, and sleeping on a comfortable bed.

Your definition of a perfect partner, a perfect life, is up to you. Make it count.

6) Greed

The quest for more could land you in a lot of trouble. Sometimes our lust for more power, more money, more danger, takes over reason and logic.

You need to ask yourself what’s driving your ‘need’ to want the things you want. You’d be surprised how little you actually need to live a happy life. Less is more.

7) Excuses

You will always find a reason to do something and not do something else.

Our reasoning depends on how much we want to do one thing.

Stop making excuses for why you’re not where you want to be, why you’re not doing what you’re passionate about, why you don’t have the body you dream of, etc.

If there’s a will, there’s usually a way.

8) Thoughts of the past

Staying stuck in the past could really hurt your chances of being happy now.

Stop thinking about your ex and what they did to you. They are out of your life for a reason, and one of them is so that you wouldn’t have to think about them anymore.

Stop thinking about friends who stabbed you in the back or pushed you down.

If they’re not part of your life anymore, then you’ve done yourself a favor.

That promotion you didn’t get last year, then try your best to get it this year. That vacation you couldn’t afford, book it now. Move up and move on.

9) Insecurities

There will always be people better than you. There will always be someone better looking, more hardworking, sexier, more intelligent, and the list is endless.

But it doesn’t matter.

You need to be enough for yourself, in your own eyes.

Most of the time, your loved ones already know that you don’t need to be more for them to love and accept you. You need to see yourself through those eyes from time to time.

10) Control

By now you already know that as much as you like planning things to the detail, there is a very real chance that they won’t be followed.

Life is more than the things we plan.

The spontaneous things, the ones that surprise us are the ones that really make us feel alive.

Also, attempting to control how others see you or how they feel about you is a futile effort. The best you can do is make yourself the kind of person that you want to be and the right people will love you for exactly that.

Control is good for certain things, but it’s not something you should attempt to do all the time and get anxious about when things don’t go your way. Learn to let things happen as they will.

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48 Comments on "10 Things We Need to Let Go"

  1. Thank you; needed reaffirmation this morning.

  2. This s great advice….because it is all so doable. Common sense. I’m printing it out to keep in my purse. Then I can re read it whenever I need a boost. Thanks.

  3. Day starting good; misspelled own name.. Hahaha..happens when I reply in the dark! : )

  4. All about Creation…
    The Reflection of Light

  5. My faith is all in God I have know need to lie are beat eny one I have pay my due but some people just want to hold over your head but keep in mind it only one God He is the Master of All! Mark my word for you that don’t have faith!

  6. Francisco D. Encarnado | November 17, 2015 at 11:59 am | Reply

    These are true and an eye opener for those who have not realize it at the moment. After reading it, I have realize that sometimes, am also guilty of some of these things though some I have been practicing to make myself and my family happy. Nice to share with with others.

  7. Hello Heather. I am one of your followers and truly love your content. Would you mind if i shared this article in my E-mag?
    I will add the link to the original source.
    Please let me know.

  8. Oh thanks, i just love it.

  9. Thank you Heather for you kind words and inspirations those blogs will carry me a long way,
    I will keep in touch.

  10. C. Charles Rudd | November 17, 2015 at 1:00 pm | Reply

    Hello MM,
    Enjoy your comments however two Subjects could be improved:

    Pride – having Healthy Pride is not necessarily a bad thing. Being Proud of your Children when they do something well. Even if it’s a small thing. Or Graduating from University. That would be Healthy Pride.
    Perhaps you mean “False Pride,” which one must be careful of.

    Perfection – Nothing in this Life, Nothing, is Perfect. Except God. Better Human Beings Strive for Excellence.
    Excellence is more than enough to make anyone as Happy as a Human Being can imagine to be.
    Keep Happy,
    Fine Artist and Global Humanitarian Relief Worker.

  11. thank you for your 10 tips that can help people remove their negative emotions that definately block them from feeling the joy and inner happiness that they long for.fortunately, i have many years ago been blessed with that gift of being able to find the joy every day in the simple beauties of everyday living, no matter how difficult my life has been.. it is a gift that is unexplainable, but i am beyond thankful for this blessing.. the 10 points that you have written i live every day, except the point of “expectation”, that is something that i have recently become aware of, and am working on, to remove that from my mind and my feelings… i basically live my life by giving… giving to all those in need who are experiencing pain and unbearable struggles, working diligently for the “causes” that are very near and dear to me. i preach about my causes to everyone and try to educate anyone and everyone who is unaware and unenlightened,, (the environment, saving the animals, and embracing all who come to me with their own personal pain.) i feel blessed…

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  13. Thank you,for what you wrote today it gave me understanding.i am grateful .

  14. Thank you so much for this blog, I am going through so much right now, this couldn’t have come to me at a better time! Thanks again, blessings always

  15. This really resonated with me.

  16. Thank you for this blog. I was having a hard time this morning cuz I have been so concerned that my family will not approve of my life situstion. But reading these 10 things are all things I have been struggling with an had reassured me I am on the right track. Thank you so much!

  17. Thank you so much for the helpful tips – I’m looking forward to the meditation that you have to offer! As they say I have no lower lumbur & full of arthritis however since I started your techniques I’m moving and more and doing exercises thank you.

  18. Thanks for sharing, I am on board and so thankful to be a part of this!

  19. Love this, Thank you!!

  20. Wow I loved this. somethings I saw within myself but not to full extent, but hey who am I kidding, it is what it is, big or small. I try my hardest to not do these things, I live only one day at a time. I let go of what I can’t change. Kind regards! <3

  21. You are right there are things I could work on for the better

  22. I agree 100%. Wish I could do all of these all of the time, but then
    I’d be perfect, right? And would no longer need to be alive because
    the journey was over. I would have “arrived”, so to speak.

  23. We are humans to live in these Circumstances as mentioned and turn away whenever dangers appear. All this is because of our heart are of flesh. Suppose our hearts are of stone then we danger our fellow humans because we will never consider the good times. All we will be doing just to harm and leave. However words of advice are important. Times of stabbing from behind are many especially by uncles, aunties e.t.c, in the family tree. Maybe the thing is that I have always been a beginner in life to reduce shocks. How then they do fail to humiliate me. Ever since teenage hood I have known friend to be my family.

  24. Its great to have those kinds of tips to make yiur life an enjoyable one and staying cool,rock n happy…
    Just to add some…no reasons should arise to any humans in the world regardless of race ,believes or religion,GOD created everyone so perfectly indeed..since the time Adam cane and HE brought in EVE…obviously in lifw of many went to generations to generations till today…yess no doubt humans were created smarrer than the animals..of course by GOD THE MAGNIFICENT THE CREATOR…
    As time passes greed,many teachings out of track,including the muslims,hindus,etc the countries human made law as for today expiribg and it getting worse..is it an agenda to detroy each other today? hahaha..to be frank humans are not scared of GOD THEIR CREATOR anymore as they see the World as wonderland grap as much as u can,dont share,cheat each other,kill if u have too .Humans list their souls today and they re worse than animals..o MY LORD feeling very sad about this humansand when are they going to sit down on the same track…my message to this humans around the globe rwsd this illustration…
    HUMANS you came from GOD..
    HE created you,although maybe you dont remember..
    HE built everthing perfectly to see a peace love and understanding life to flourish every corner of HIS WORLD…ask Putin if he can create an ant and give it a life…he wll go to his room and stay in for 3days to think…hahaha
    HUMANS your arrogants are above the Gates as for today..thus a 360* turn should happen about knowing the truth of GOD and HIS LOVE PLAN FOR THE HUMANITY ALL THIS LONG TIME OF PERIOD B4 TIME COMES FOR JUDGEMENT DAY…
    HUMANS be reminded that all the SOURCES the air,the Sun,the Moon,the Stars,the animals,the fishes varieties,the mountains,the trees,the beautiful rivers,the seas were created by HIM not Obama or Najib razaky yea..with LOVE and today we’re fighting with each other for HIS SOURCES and proud of it…MY LORD let me talk a bit more..
    HUMANS are smart very smart,pls ask who made you that brains haa..and everything..today HUMANS make laws for own benefits…so came the rich and the poor…

    Its time to tell humanity to uphold LOVE,SHARING,CARING,and uphold that gratitude to GOD and make HIM hapoy..PURE HEARTS and alwys remembervthe IWNER..
    Tq so much ,wll write soon..take care GID BLESS..

  25. Coleen de la Querra | November 17, 2015 at 6:43 pm | Reply

    It sounds brilliant, I will read this and definitely sign up if it works.

  26. It is the fact. Thank you!

  27. Thank you for the inspiration
    Needed it. I lost my loving wife 7months ago and reallytime is not healer its a passage of period passed with the reality of acceptance as a will of GOD.
    A beautiful love we shared and she had the heart to leave me a note expressing that love. I do miss her alot and void in my life reflects her absence. We have no kids and her buoyant character and presence eluminated our home. Supportffrom mum and
    Niece and sister fills the house but she is missing and the house is not a home anymore.

  28. Hi Heather. Thank you very much for you kind tutorial and sharing. I am Glad for having this knowledge and information.

    Thanks again,
    May the Joy always be With you
    Ade Tita

  29. I can happily say that *none* of these apply to me at all. Woohoo. None of these things have been a part of my life (except maybe Excuses) for a very, very long time, if at all.

  30. Thank you Heather for this valuable inside, much Love and Appreciation.

  31. Thank you h most beautiful and in formative love it love it …shire is a big help thanks for caring.thanks for sharing

  32. Good answers in return of this matter with solid arguments and telling all concerning that.

  33. Good write-up. I definitely love this site. Continue the
    good work!

  34. I would have agree that giving up control has to be the hardest, but the most important whether it is giving up control to our creator or whether it’s to those we delegate responsibility.

  35. I really learn so many things from this article,thank so much.


  37. All common sense stuff. Incredible how un-mindful we can become.

    When hungry – eat.
    When tired – sleep.

    And let go of the need to “seperate” from others.

    Just be…. that is where happiness is.


  38. very nice article. really helpful tips

  39. Thank you this information is very helpful

  40. Izamaria Rozim | July 19, 2016 at 7:35 pm | Reply

    I was really in need of this pushing up.
    Thank you so much

  41. What a blessing
    Thank you

  42. Wooow I am so happy that I read of things I need to let go but now I need help I am scared to love and all the responsibilities that comes with being in love like visiting a guy, sex and all that intimate part. please help me I really need love, made love, cuddled and all that.

  43. Thoughts of the past,has been my problem for a very long time,now i have learn anew.Thank you so much Heather.

  44. This really inspired me. I have been having lots of insecurity issues. Thanks so much

  45. Touche. Sound arguments. Maintain the great effort.

  46. Thank u for sharing the words that we all need to hear..to keep us on our toes and reminder of any outcome in our lives..

    Blessings always.. Xx

  47. This website was… how can i say it? Relevant!! Finally I’ve
    found a thing that helped me. Many thanks!

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